Have you ever cheated or been cheated on? [Archive]

Kelly_Owls

20th February 2008, 16:45

Never had a serious relationship so no.

But I used to casually 'see' two people at the same time, only physical with one, just getting to know the other...that's not cheating in my book as they knew about each other...hmmm...

Would hate people to cheat on me, so I would never even think about it myself.

One_John_Ryan

20th February 2008, 16:46

Yes to both unfortunately. I've been single about 8 months now, I reckon it's god getting revenge ;)

DShamen

20th February 2008, 16:51

I've never cheated on anyone, but have been cheated on three times... that I definitely know of.
Well, I MAY have cheated once, but in response to her snogging some random bloke after we'd had a row.

Fent

20th February 2008, 16:58

I've never cheated on anyone, but have been cheated on three times... that I definitely know of.
Well, I MAY have cheated once, but in response to her snogging some random bloke after we'd had a row.

was that the christmas party thingy?

TLC

20th February 2008, 17:12

Been cheated on - Yes
Been the cheater - No

Chelsea Blue

20th February 2008, 17:22

Can't stand it. If a girlfriend cheated on me, no matter how much I loved her, I could never speak to her again. Unforgivable.

Digital Twisted

20th February 2008, 17:31

Been cheated on - Yes
Been the cheater - No

Ah laziness.

Martinho

20th February 2008, 17:37

No to both.

FY1

20th February 2008, 17:54

Yes to both.

Although my cheating days have long since gone.

Distillerdude

20th February 2008, 18:00

Can't stand it. If a girlfriend cheated on me, no matter how much I loved her, I could never speak to her again. Unforgivable.

Well, you're obviously a virgin then :hmmm

Gunner32

20th February 2008, 18:05

No to Both

Bantam Jay

20th February 2008, 18:08

I wouldn't really count it as cheating as I wasn't going out with her but I was seeing a girl for about 2 weeks and ended up getting off with her best mate in a club.
We were both very very drunk. The worst thing is the lass I was seeing was in the same club!

Sharp

20th February 2008, 18:17

Never been cheated on.

I'd never cheat on anyone, it's just not right.

Notts35

20th February 2008, 18:19

I've never cheated, but I have been cheated on. :( It sucks

YipJaapStam

20th February 2008, 18:19

I've never cheated on anyone and if I have been cheated on, I know nothing about it.

'Uddersfield

20th February 2008, 18:21

No and no.

TheLondonerBees

20th February 2008, 18:25

Cheated - unfortunately yes.

Been cheated on - not to to my recollection :hmmm

NewcastlePoolie

20th February 2008, 19:45

coxy_saddler

20th February 2008, 20:22

Yes and Yes.

I was with me misses...About 2 months...Nothing too special. I went to Blackpool with the lads...You know how it goes and it happened there! A bird from glasgow..Bloody Georgus!! Still speak now..:Banana:

NewcastlePoolie

20th February 2008, 20:24

And did you tell your girlfriend?

Samoth

20th February 2008, 21:37

yes to both

swfc_babe85

20th February 2008, 21:45

Hmmm sort of cheated on I suppose. Never cheated though.

bcfc4life

20th February 2008, 22:07

nope to both, havent been in a relationship as such though.

Sunil

21st February 2008, 00:22

Can't stand it. If a girlfriend cheated on me, no matter how much I loved her, I could never speak to her again. Unforgivable.

http://m.gmgrd.co.uk/res/587.$plit/C_71_article_1028307_image_list_image_li st_item_0_image.jpg

Braders :laugh:

Luke_Ciderhead

21st February 2008, 00:39

I've had two proper relationships and as far as I know, I wasnt cheated on in either of them....hard to tell though!

Im not the cheating sort myself....the one time I did find myself going behind the back of somebody I was seing, I ended it...because if youre really into somebody the last thing you'd want to do is that.

DV85

21st February 2008, 00:57

technically been cheated on.....although technically she was cheating on her boyfriend with.

Her boyfriend used to work saturdays I guess, so thats when I'd see her.....we werent in a full on relationship or anything.

Anyway, me and my mates went out on a Friday night for a change because IT WAS MY BIRTHDAY.....who do I see in the club all over a bloke, the girl im seeing....she spots me comes over and introduces me to her boyfriend.

Not the best birthday I ever had.

TractorBoy

21st February 2008, 02:33

Yes, a couple of times
Yes, just the once

LinekerLegend

21st February 2008, 03:00

Yes to both, Although i wouldn't do it again.

busby

21st February 2008, 12:58

Cheated on yes, St Patricks day last year and I only found out on mothers day because when I was "playing pool" I nipped to the bar and seen her texting and went to investigate because all her mates was there with her and it was the lad she cheated with... as for cheating I wouldn't call it that I used to talk to a lass when I was with my ex but we always fell out and stuff so I called it a day and went to see this other lass the day after, I seen it as a way she will get hurt by finishing it or get hurt by me being unfaithful so I feel I done the right thing

mattledud

21st February 2008, 13:21

Cheated... yes, twice :no: Both with girls that I didn't really care about, so it was a completely stupid thing to do. Funny, despite this, I stilll don't see myself as the cheating type... :hmmm

Not been cheated on to my knowledge.

Scotty Walds

21st February 2008, 14:45

No, and no I don't think so...

AB2002

21st February 2008, 16:29

Cheater - no
Cheatee - yes

ShrewsburysGurl

21st February 2008, 18:00

How about...have you ever been the person someones cheated with? I have, twice.

Kelly_Owls

21st February 2008, 18:06

How about...have you ever been the person someones cheated with? I have, twice.
Depends on what you class as cheating...taking out? A kiss? Sex? Other things?

LinekerLegend

21st February 2008, 18:19

Yeah, I class cheating as having sex with someone.

A peck on the cheek is no harm....

ShrewsburysGurl

21st February 2008, 18:21

Urrm...I didn't have sex with them...Just got off with each other. Alot.

Kelly_Owls

21st February 2008, 18:50

Urrm...I didn't have sex with them...Just got off with each other. Alot.
In that case, i'm in the same boat as you.

Guy has long-term girlfriend and a young kid (I didn't know about the kid at the time and I didn't know he'd been with his girlfriend for as long as he had!) but lives away from them both and I got to know him a bit.

Feel RIGHT guilty because of it.

great white

21st February 2008, 20:08

Been cheated on - Yes
Been the cheater - NoWith you on that

Pazz_AFCB

21st February 2008, 20:57

Can't stand it. If a girlfriend cheated on me, no matter how much I loved her, I could never speak to her again. Unforgivable.

Agreed.

No to both by the way.

mickgrant

22nd February 2008, 09:04

Cheater - I think so in one particular instance although my mates don't see that as such.

Cheatee - If taking a girl out to a club, going to the toilet and coming back seeing her get off with some bloke is cheating - then yes I was. Although, we were only casually seeing each other.

Tas

22nd February 2008, 09:31

Been Cheated on: Oh heck yes, just the once mind but it was the former wife. Can't say i enjoyed the experience much ;)

Been the Cheater: No and never would.

SouthEastClaret

22nd February 2008, 14:26

I must say I don't think I've cheated on anyone, but I've certainly been cheated on in the past

:whistle Almost left my ex-partner for my ex wife in 2003, almost left her for that mad cow who was jailed for trying to kill her hubby with De-Icer in 2004 (Thank God I dumped her), come close on several occasions to leaving her for the love of my life 'Laura' who is waiting for me in Worksop :love:
Had a fling with my ex-wife while she was over here from the States in 2004 while with my ex partner.
Ex-Partner had an affair behind my back for a couple of months in early 2007.

Lockie

22nd February 2008, 15:07

Yes and Yes

Lockie

22nd February 2008, 15:08

:whistle Almost left my ex-partner for my ex wife in 2003, almost left her for that mad cow who was jailed for trying to kill her hubby with De-Icer in 2004 (Thank God I dumped her), come close on several occasions to leaving her for the love of my life 'Laura' who is waiting for me in Worksop :love:
Had a fling with my ex-wife while she was over here from the States in 2004 while with my ex partner.
Ex-Partner had an affair behind my back for a couple of months in early 2007.

Couldn't follow this. How many women were involved?

LinekerLegend

22nd February 2008, 18:22

:whistle Almost left my ex-partner for my ex wife in 2003, almost left her for that mad cow who was jailed for trying to kill her hubby with De-Icer in 2004 (Thank God I dumped her)

:eeek I'm sure i read that in the daily mail, Was it in the papers?

Trent End Ben

22nd February 2008, 18:43

I've been cheated on, not a nice feeling really.

Still shes pig ugly now and i have a better girlfriend so it makes me smile to see her miserable :)

SouthEastClaret

22nd February 2008, 20:45

:eeek I'm sure i read that in the daily mail, Was it in the papers?

Yes. Katie Knight. We had a close relationship between September 2003 and February 2004. She was on Sky News and in the papers.

SouthEastClaret

22nd February 2008, 20:46

Couldn't follow this. How many women were involved?

Four! Narrowed down to one now :laugh:

dan_19

29th February 2008, 13:27

I once went on a date with some other lad when I was in the early stages of a relationship with my last boyfriend. Going on the date made me realise how much I liked the other lad so I made an excuse to go home early and got with the other properly. I wouldn't count it as cheating though as we weren't properly together at the time. Unfortunately though about 3 months later my boyfriend cheated on me!

Player!

I have never had anyone cheat on me as far as I know,

I was seeing a girl for a bit but wasn't properly with her and I pulled on a couple of nights out but I don't think that really counts.

Benzel

29th February 2008, 13:34

yeah i been cheated on. hurt like a bastard.

not cheated on anyone. Wouldnt surprise me if I did though. Not that I intend to!!