Does Age Matter

[louisgills]

Loads of people say loads of things bout people going out with other people with a big age gape. Do u think its wrong. Should a 21 year old be alowed to go out with some1 who is 16.
Should a 17 year oldgo out with a 14 year old.
People say theres no point or there a diff rules. I have loads of mates going out with Girls much younger then them and they have not tuched them and people still say its wrong.
What do u think.

[theodorewhitmore]

No chance - altho me n my partner (or to be ex partner) are the same age i like this bird at work who's 18, 5 years younger than me and do i care? Do I ****!!!
My bets mate who's 22 is seeing a 37 year old.
It simply does not matter.

[ourkid]

Definitely not, but there is some times its taking the piss, for example going with someone whos 16, maybe 17 and your like 4/5 years older, i wouldnt be up for that, depends on maturity i suppose. I did go out with an 18 year old when i was 24, so i cant say age is a problem, scary at first, but when ya think about it properly, it doesnt matter much.

[Bluetonic]

Nope it does not matter (within reason), but it works in the other way for blokes too ;) Nothing like an experienced lady:Banana:

[great white]

When I was 19 I lived with a 28 year for over two years...that was fun...till she went back to see her soon to be ex husband to discuss the divorce and got preggers...

Madame is currently 3 years younger than me...I shall let you all do your own sums on that one..

But if some nubile 18 year old was looking for a father figure I may just may consider a ménage a trois..:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

[theodorewhitmore]

Originally posted by ourkid
depends on maturity i suppose.


most definately :clap:

[Daz]

I remember this guy where I used to live was about 30 and used to go out with 17/18 yr olds. When I was in my early 20s I found that a bit hectic, now I'm 31 I say bring em on!!! :sex:

Seriously tho, it depends on the situation, like when my daughter gets older, if she's say 13/14 and brings home a fella who's 16, I'll knock him out.

[Flyso]

Especially if he's like that scruffy young tearaway Aidan out of Coronation Street Daz!:laugh:

[super white]

I don't think age matters that much at all once you get past a certain age. Obviously when you're bout 14 it matters, but having said that I was going out with someone 6 years older than me when I was 15.

One of my best mates has just got out of a year long relationship with a 25 year old lad, and I'm still really really good mates with him, even though he's quite a bit older than me.

I hada bit of a thing with a chef from work last year and he's 27 and the ald I'm after atm is 3 years older than me. I don't think age matters that much at all but there obviously has to be limits. A girl I went to school with is now going out with a 34 year old, and I don't think that's right really.

[Trev_GFC]

I know so many girls in my sixth form who are going out with 30-35 year old men. Why the competition?:angryfire

Going out with people old enough to be your parents when you're a teenager isn't right. As you grow older though, it becomes difficult to guess ages.

Best thing to do is to leave all the 16-18 year old girls to me:D ;)

[great white]

Originally posted by Trev_GFC
I know so many girls in my sixth form who are going out with 30-35 year old men. Why the competition?:angryfire
They are not stuck to a computer keyboard 18 hours a day and can pamper them...blah blah blah....So where exactly is Gillingham then?? sounds an interesting place..maybe pay a visit and chat up some nice 18 year old that fancies becoming a french housemaid... :laugh: :laugh:

[Ji]

A friend of mine is currently (and foolishly I think) seeing a married 44(ish) year old, and they've been seeing each other for almost 2 years now...

They seem pretty happy (even if his wife has just found out the FULL story recently, tho he's not been kicked out yet...!!) so I spose its not that bad.

He's still older than her mum tho... (oh btw she's 21).

[Mr Sinistero]

I voted no, it doesnt matter as long as the two people are happy, but i think in extreme cases it is just wrong, that the older person is taking advantage of the younger person, like someone at work told me the other day that this guy i work with who is 25, his ex was 14, i personally think that is wrong, i have gone out with a girl who was 15 whilst i was 18 and a chick who was 22 when i was 18 so it doesnt bother me much.

[Goonerchick]

I think that in terms of where you are in your life, age does matter to a certain extent--I can't imagine dating a 22-year-old who is still in the throes of his party-boy phase, nor could I imagine dating some middle-aged geek who just wanted to sit around watch 'Law & Order' reruns every night.

On the other hand, it doesn't matter THAT much, 'cause men are all b@stards anyway! ;)

[Trev_GFC]

Originally posted by great white
They are not stuck to a computer keyboard 18 hours a day and can pamper them...blah blah blah....So where exactly is Gillingham then?? sounds an interesting place..maybe pay a visit and chat up some nice 18 year old that fancies becoming a french housemaid... :laugh: :laugh:

:laugh: :coolpimp: :laugh:

[Pach]

Originally posted by Trev_GFC
I know so many girls in my sixth form who are going out with 30-35 year old men. Why the competition?:angryfire

Best thing to do is to leave all the 16-18 year old girls to me:D ;)

Don't forget that although we may be ugly, fat uncool and unhip, we DO HAVE THE DISPOSABLE INCOME AND THE BETTER CAR!!! :laugh:

Also, we were YOU once... :cry: :cry:

[great white]

Originally posted by Goonerchick
On the other hand, it doesn't matter THAT much, 'cause men are all b@stards anyway! ;) :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

[SEAGULL USA]

Age only matters if you want to drive a car or have a pint legally.
Goonerchick,
are you a librarian by any chance?:)

[TheGreatDane]

Originally posted by Daz
Seriously tho, it depends on the situation, like when my daughter gets older, if she's say 13/14 and brings home a fella who's 16, I'll knock him out.

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :clap: :clap:

Good idea Daz. You know how the young boys are nowadays, always want a "good" time :sex: But, I'm afraid you'll scare all the other lads away, and your daughter will have a reputation of having a father who knocks out anyone who goes out with her. But whatever is good for your child, then do the right thing.

[TheGreatDane]

Originally posted by Trev_GFC
Best thing to do is to leave all the 16-18 year old girls to me:D ;)

Not if I have anything to say about it. :rolleyes:

How old are you by the way, not like it matters. ;)

[TheGreatDane]

Originally posted by Goonerchick
On the other hand, it doesn't matter THAT much, 'cause men are all b@stards anyway! ;)

I beg to differ. Did you get turned down one too many times? :jester: ;)

[TheGreatDane]

Originally posted by SEAGULL USA
Goonerchick, are you a librarian by any chance?:)

Seagull, is there a stereotype for librarians who hate men?

[Bluetonic]

naa it definitely doesnt matter after tonight ;) met me new flatmate today (18 yr old fem) and it didnt take long to get it on :D

and no not like that before u ask... :rolleyes:

[The Truth]

Originally posted by TheGreatDane
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :clap: :clap:

You know how the young boys are nowadays, always want a "good" time :sex:


Hmmmmmmm, something you want to tell us...?

[super white]

Originally posted by Goonerchick

On the other hand, it doesn't matter THAT much, 'cause men are all b@stards anyway! ;)

:clap: well said :clap:

[RicardoFuller]

I went out with a girl aged 23 when i was 13 we had sex and evrything but i don't think it's wrong

[The Truth]

Would that have been ok if the girl was 13 and you were 23?

[Ching]

:laugh: How long did that relationship last Ricardo and what was wrong with the kiddy-fidler?

I say yes. I know a guy that's 27 and he's seeing a 16 year old. It makes for an uncomfortable atmosphere whenever they're in company as people aren't sure how to act.

[Mr Rubber Gloves...]

I heard of a Burnley fan who is 40 and is going out with this girl of 20. You would think nothing bad of it but it is his daughter.

The funny thing is, she is cheating on him with a bloke of 60 who believe it or not is her grandad (his dad).

:eek: :D

[8 of 6]

so how old is the donkey you are giving one to then rubber chicken. i am thinking you are about 10 so i would think the donkey is about 48.

[Jamesie]

It's very very wrong. I know a girl who is 17 and going out with a 25 year old and when he comes out with us we basically ignore him. She gets some slagging for her "old chap" as well.

[Bad_Seed]

Originally posted by ourkid
Definitely not, but there is some times its taking the piss, for example going with someone whos 16, maybe 17 and your like 4/5 years older, i wouldnt be up for that, depends on maturity i suppose. I did go out with an 18 year old when i was 24, so i cant say age is a problem, scary at first, but when ya think about it properly, it doesnt matter much.

So ourkid you older than gail or younger?

[great white]

Originally posted by Bad_Seed
So ourkid you older than gail or younger? :Rock: :Rock: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :Rock: :Rock:

[athimick]

Now we all know they are just the very best of mates:rolleyes:

[athimick]

No really they are, not joking now, least i think they are

[The Truth]

Originally posted by Jamesie
It's very very wrong. I know a girl who is 17 and going out with a 25 year old and when he comes out with us we basically ignore him. She gets some slagging for her "old chap" as well.


He gets stick for going out with someone of 17?? She's not 12 for **** sake. That age differential is nothing really.

[Goonerchick]

Originally posted by SEAGULL USA
Goonerchick,
are you a librarian by any chance?:)

Only on errrr, "special occasions"! ;) :eek:

[Joe]

Originally posted by Goonerchick
On the other hand, it doesn't matter THAT much, 'cause men are all b@stards anyway! ;)

It's this kind of attitude that makes us men want to get them while they are still young... :laugh:

[SEAGULL USA]

Originally posted by Goonerchick
Only on errrr, "special occasions"! ;) :eek:

Now you're talking. :eek:

[Bad_Seed]

SOOOO do we have any bastards or bitches here?

Any girls want to admit to being a bitch or one of you fella's want to admit to being a bastard.

:rolleyes:

[ecfc girl]

Originally posted by athimick
No really they are, not joking now, least I think they are

Just for the record, me and Ourkid are good friends and that's all. Those that know me know the truth anyway, and that's all that matters.

[Jamesie]

You have to wonder what's wrong with someone if they are 25 and have to go looking for a schoolgirl to go out with them like.

[ourkid]

Originally posted by Bad_Seed
So ourkid you older than gail or younger?

Im younger, why?

[Trev_GFC]

Originally posted by TheGreatDane
Not if I have anything to say about it. :rolleyes:

How old are you by the way, not like it matters. ;)

I'm 17. I don't go out with people that are old enough to be my mum. So 20 year olds from Chatham are out of it:laugh:

[brucey8]

my x lass was 18 and i'm 14