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What's going on in your life and general advice thread

Discussion in 'General Off Topic Discussion' started by Sandsy, Feb 12, 2019.

  1. Leo

    Leo Guest

    A steak dinner, onion rings & everyfing.....sorted. You won't regret it.
     
  2. Tornado

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    If this works, I'm marrying you as well.
     
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    Okay from a female perspective I will echo Daz’s comment.

    It’s time, thoughtfulness, actions and deeds you need to give her, no pressure or talks of relationships and certainly not the ‘I’m going to wear you down’ line. Just keep telling her she’s beautiful and special and has value.

    As someone who went through a distructive relationship (long story - some of it is in the mental health thread), when someone takes so much from you that they damage your self image, your confidence and your trust in your own judgement it’s a place that takes a long time to come back from. Somewhere along the line when you hear positive things often enough and said honestly and meaningfully it starts a little spark upnsomewhere inside you and with enough time you start to believe in yourself again.

    She seems very special and worth the wait, so get ready to show her she’s worth the long haul of the time she needs. :love:
     
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    Thanks, darling. I've done this for years. I'll never change that.

    I do have patience. She's definitely worth the time.
     
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    Good luck mate :hopefully
     
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  6. Leo

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    You good in the kitchen, ironing, housework, washing ? If so you're welcome to chance your arm wi the wife mate....:laugh:
     
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    :laugh::laugh:
     

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