Did Sri Lanka for our honeymoon, beautiful place. Definitely check the best place to go in the summer, as it's a funny place for weather and there's usually a monsoon season somewhere on the island. We went to a place called Tangalle which is in the south east of the island in December. Are you planning on staying in one place? the transfer from Colombo is a long one to most places, it was about 6 hours in the car to Tangalle so in hindsight would have been nice to have had a few days somewhere a bit closer and done it gradually. We mainly relaxed but did some nice things like visiting Handunugoda tea plantation and a safari at Udawalawe national park which included a stop at an Elephant sanctuary.
I didn’t compare centuries of racial oppression to anything. It’s an example of how a set phrase is acceptable in some occasions and not in others. You maliciously calling someone “morbidly obese” isn’t the same as me playfully calling someone I speak to every day a “fat prick”. You know it isn’t, but you’re arguing it anyway, because that’s just the sort of person you are.
I don’t claim to be innocent as I’m not not, and sometimes yes I warrant people abusing me. But never have I warranted all of the abuse I’ve been given on here. A some of that has been off you but it’s ok that you’ve upset me and made me feel like utter shit. You have no idea what I’m dealing with so if you’ve nothing nice to say then why bother. So I think it’s fair to call you out here for double standards. Yeah I’ll explain - What Ally said to you was out of order and too personal. But you are capable of defending yourself and there shouldn’t have to be a what’s app assemble happening in your defence especially from people who them themselves have made me feel the same way you have apparently been made to feel. You are sensitive about your weight and I’m sensitive about something different but it’s still a case of you never know what someone is dealing with so just be kind. That’s double standards and a fair comment Will.
I’ve never said anything particularly personal to you. What, that you have 5 jokes? Sort it out. Imagine coming in here and making this all about you
Yes you have, you have tore into my character and how I am etc loads of times. Just because it’s not an insult about my physical appearance doesn’t mean it’s not personal. And you should maybe stop to think how that makes someone feel. I just don’t like the ‘when it suits’ attitude on here from everyone. We should all just be nice to each other.
No you don't. No-one warrants being abused, that includes you, Will, Allison - whoever. Except maybe Rock.
Then leave. You take this place ridiculously seriously. I’ve seen people mention your children before and I’ve totally avoided getting involved. I came in here to defend someone and you have used that to attack me. A f*cking disgusting character trait. There, that’s personal.
I don't control the other members of the chat. I didn't ask anyone to back me up, I didn't ask anyone to defend me. We are (for the most part) all very active members of the forum, it's hardly surprising that; 1. They will see things on the forum and 2. If they see someone I hope they'd consider a friend being abused off the back of a light hearted joke, they'd defend them. People seem to think the whatsapp group is somewhere where we orchestrate attacks on people on the forum and its absolutely hilarious tbh. Secondly, I don't think anyone has made any assumption on how I've been made to feel. The comment was far too personal given what preceded it but that says far more about AW and how precious he is about his moronic word than it does about me. Maybe he'd had a stressful morning, maybe one of the old dears had shit down his wrist whilst he was cleaning them up, who knows? The fact he is still trying to justify his comments and bringing up examples that were blatantly said and received and responded to in jest suggests that he's just a **** though. Thankfully we all already knew that. Good day.
I do sometimes to be fair. That old chestnut of taking it too seriously - it’s not about taking it seriously or not, it’s about wanting to post and not wanting to be made to feel I like I shouldn’t post or I should leave. Why am I not able to just be myself and post .. I don’t cause any harm to anyone. Will is capable of defending himself - he doesn’t need you or anyone else ‘defending him’ - I mean i once joked about Will having 6 chins and then he proceeded to start a revenge attack on me months after - to which loads joined in on (not you) - and not one person called any one person out that day out on the abuse I got. It’s only when it suits on this place for people to have morals. I won’t even mention what me joking in a vasectomy thread caused.
No where did i say you control anyone or asked anyone to back you up. So not sure what your point is? No one is saying you orchestrate attacks on people either. So again not sure what your point is there? Just because members of your group see posts doesn’t mean they have to comment. It’s not mandatory. That’s the point. His joke was wrong, I’ve no issues with that being said. None at all. I just don’t see why people are calling his moral compass out etc over that comment when their own moral compasses have been way off themselves. So people in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones. I don’t see what’s so wrong me saying that. No. You know full well regarding the photo of me you stole and the subsequent abuse I received that night. And to which you commented ‘revenge is sweet and this is for making a joke about my 6 chins’. So you yourself have made things personal to me.
You might warrant having certain posts or comments pulled up, as we all do from time to time. No-one should be getting abused because of something they’ve said on here. Unless it’s something truly awful.
Well yes that’s exactly my point that no one should get abused and we shouldn’t pick and choose when to have a moral compass. We should all always be kind. I just don’t understand why Ally was called out that’s all by anyone other than Will, when every day there is things just as bad said and no one says anything to. Then I get accused of making it about me when I was just giving examples to the moral compass police.
