I am a nice and good looking lad who is social and works hard. But ladies pick flash pretty boys and bulging brutes over me because I lack confidence. Anyone else having problems?
They don't like nice guys they like dickheads/bad boys act like a tit (Within reason) and see if it changes fortunes.
I feel your pain some of us have been put on the scrap heap. We can't match the criteria required. Tried dating sites more blocks than contacts by miles.
Lad sent me this is he right? Right; - Dating is almost entirely a physical based competition. - Social skills and personality are overrated. - It's easier for less attractive women to find partners. Wrong: - You are doomed. You can always bulk up, even if you are short or skinny. - You need to be ripped. So long as you have strong arms and torso you would generally be considered attractive. Only obese, skinny and skinny fat body types are unattractive. - You have to be good looking. The majority of men are ordinary looking and on the same level. Body type and height are the key difference makers.
I'd suggest going and finding an interest with a better class of female. Eliminate the dating hunt and just participate and make some friends with the opposite gender. Why? A lot of women don't seem to see the difference between a confident person and a cocky self absorbed twat. They want the difference but it seems like they can't reliably spot it. So join a cookery class or something lol.
Well apart from the 2 people who joined in 2003 at opposite ends of the country who now co-own the site and have been married since 2011 I think this person needs some confidence and to stop making excuses about why technology isn't helping them because that's just whiney and would put anyone off
I am so very glad I’m too old for this shit. I used to love chatting a girl up, on a bus, in a pub, wherever, now you can’t get their attention because they’re listening to the latest Taylor Swift on their AirPods..
