I am temporarily in. Split with Carol... Got a call and a letter off an old friend (used to be a professional relationship) and she wants to meet up with me on New Years Eve. So....this may only be temporary.
Noooo. I'm sure you've met him, works at the same place as Craig. Remember when we met you in Broomhill sat on that comfy sofa and everyone was taking the pee out of me, he came along I thought to rescue me, and he joined in?! I'm sure you were there then..
Right now let's get started, we're not just gonna sit on our arses and hope by some miracle a girl falls onto our laps, life's not like that. New years eve is fast approaching. We'll all be out and about in the clubs/pubs etc I take it? Now any of us can set a challenge but the main idea of it has to be that everyone gets out of their comfort zone and take a risk. You'll never pull if you don't take a chance. Nice and easy challenge from me, go up to one girl you fancy and start a conversation with her. Now the only twist to this is that if she totally rejects you, you have to go up to another until you get some kind of connection. You don't have to get her phone number but you do have to hold your own in the convo. It's about building up your confidence with girls you don't know and learning not to build the approach up too much. If you go up to one girl and she rejects you and you don't try again straight after you're gonna be thinking about how shit you are with girls for the whole week and it's gonna do you no favours. This is something I always have to remind myself how to do after any break up tbh and some of you will have to learn it for the first time. Just remember that any mistakes you do make you'll learn from and you won't feel as nervous next time. It's as hard as you wanna make it, dress your best and take the plunge. We'll all be doing it and we can report back any tips we have picked up or any funny shit that happened. Don't lie about what happened as you're only fooling yourself at the end of the day and you'll never get anywhere. My advice for this is don't drink too much until you've acheived your goal, just enough to loosen you up a bit and remember that pulling is just a game, not life and death. Ok. So far we have.. Me Martinho cescy_football great white Scrappy SUFC_Rick manutdlegend Tractorboy Tom gunnerama911 gull! C@rl Mascherano
Yeah this is the first step to getting more confident, I'm glad you're gonna give it a try mate. Don't put pressure on yourself. It's not easy for any of us, but you gotta be persistant and forget about rejection as soon as it happens. Her loss.
the other week i went out and my aim was to pull, just that. i done it with the first girl i chatted too. but i have no money for new years and done actually think im going out at all
Nevermind, save your money for when you can afford it. Although you could always by a 6/8 pack cheap, drink a few of those then all you have to worry about is the price of admission.
I'm a pathetic mess, so count me in! However I'm going out tonight, so I could start the challenge early. I'll report back tomorrow :Banana:
Nice one, yeah start it early. Me Martinho cescy_football great white Scrappy SUFC_Rick manutdlegend Tractorboy Tom gunnerama911 gull! C@rl Mascherano Joshisapoolie
